My friend circle is not that big. I have the friends that I want and don’t wish for any “fake friends”, if you know what I mean.
My friends have their friends. And their friends have their friends again.
On Friday I held a non-formal birthday party with my closest friends. No cake, no presents, only a movie and some popcorn.
I also have some “not so close friends”.
And when my group of close friends found out that they wouldn’t be invited, they told me that it wasn’t fair and that they would feel left out.
Then I told them that if it was a “party-party” with cake and stuff, I would have invited them too.
I only wanted a small party with my BFFs, not everybody else!
They kept on saying
“Come on! They’re gonna be sad and feel left out!”
I’m not not-inviting them because of what happened two weeks ago, but why should I?
- I want to have a small party with my BFFs, not someone that I only talk to once a day.
- They’re close enough friends to come to my birthday, but I’m not close enough to come to their’s? That don’t even make sense!
And on top of it all, all my BFFs went to that birthday party and tried to lie about it to me!
What do you think?? Have I become the bad guy?